Tuesday, December 22, 2009
Happy Bday, Josh!
I tried serenading him at 5:45 in the am, but apparently my voice isn't warmed up that early. Or, I think I fell asleep halfway through, nonetheless, Happy Birthday!
I am so thankful to have Josh in my life. I love him so much! He always makes me laugh, even on those FEW occasions I am mad at him..... He is such a good example to me always, he honors his priesthood and his temple covenants. He always reminds me of what's important (boating) and what isn't (worrying). I am so glad I get to spend eternity with him! (insert "Ah" here)
P.S. If at all possible, try not to marry anyone who has a birthday a few days before Christmas, and have Christmas a few days before your anniversary.....and you thought your December was crazy! :)
Monday, December 21, 2009
Some Updates
Josh turns the big 28 tomorrow. He is so old. :) He wants a $400 Subaru for his birthday, but he isn't getting one.
Josh defended his thesis two weeks ago. He did a really great job. Now, it's off to the Thesis editor for some revisions.
Two weeks from yesterday, Josh and I will be on a cruise to the Bahamas! Happy First Anniversary on Dec. 30th to us!
My sister Keli is coming home! I am so excited to have her back!
I have been tinkering with the sewing machine, and finished one quilt and one other quilt top. harder than I thought, but enjoyable. I have also been doing some more knitting, and am currently working on some slippers. They are so cute!
Little Ava got sealed to Adam and Summer on Saturday. It was such a wonderful experience for us to take part in. Thanks again Wilson's for inviting us!!
We are hoping for a job offer this week or next for Josh. It is almost a done deal, other than waiting on a few school things to get finished up. I can't believe we are here. It seems like we have been waiting for the end for so long, that now it is almost unreal. I am excited to see what the next few months hold for us!
Monday, December 7, 2009
Girl's Trip Chicago 2009 (minus a few girls)
Unfortunately we didn't get a picture of the look on her face when we showed up at the restaurant, but the cost of the plane tickets were totally worth it! That look was completely priceless!
Driving into Chicago Saturday morning. This is such a cool city. This was before Jill almost ran a red light and almost hit some Pedestrians.
Beside to see Keli and her family, this is the whole reason we came to Chicago. This was the restaurant we ate at with my mom 2 years ago when we came to see Wicked. There may have been only three of us this time, but mom was with us, because we sat at the EXACT same table, and after 2 years, had the EXACT same waiter! It brought tears to our eyes.
Michigan Avenue at night, and Christmas time. It was fabulous!
Us again. This was just before leaving so our eyes aren't red and puffy yet. It is so fun to go, but the worst part is that we have to leave! I miss The Clayton's SO much! Sean was so sweet to be with us with our little plan, and even went a little further, and planned us a night in the city. We stayed in a beautiful hotel, and Sean made sure we were taken care of. We even crashed HIS birthday dinner, so, thanks again, Sean, you are the best!
Tuesday, December 1, 2009
Thanksgiving
- Made a turkey AND a turkey breast, and didn't poison anyone, well, that I know of anyway
- Saw Christmas Carol. Eli wasn't the only one who was scared.
- Shopped and shopped and shopped. Up at 3:45am!
- Put up my Christmas tree. LOVE IT
- Christmas shopping, and Josh's birthday shopping, DONE
- Got through one more Holiday without my mom. This year we decided it is time to start some new traditions.
- Josh got peed on. No, not by me!
- Played with lots of babies!
This time of year is always so crazy, but I love it. Not only is it the hustle and bustle of the Holiday Season, but also time for Josh and I to celebrate. A year ago Thanksgiving week, I went to the temple. I can't believe it has been a whole year! Josh asked me the other day if I even remembered the days of wearing normal underwear. I said, "Yes, every single day". :)
Friday, November 13, 2009
Meg Q, the artist
Wednesday, November 11, 2009
We have Babies!
First, Jenny and James (Josh's sister and hubby) had little Dean Thomas Kendall last week. He is so sweet. Too bad they live in Houston, so we don't get to see him for a little while.
Second, Adam & Summer Wilson (Josh's cousins) had a beautiful baby boy yesterday. Grant Thomas Wilson was born last night, weighing in at 6lbs 11oz. He weighs almost as much as his baby sister who is 5 months!
Third, Jason and Nicole Quincy are expecting a little girl almost any day, it sounds like. Wish she would hurry, because the sooner she comes, the more chances we have of seeing them at Christmas!
It is so fun to be able to be around all these babies. I love to think that they are so perfect, and have just come here from Heaven. I can't wait for my babies to come straight from their Nunn's arms to me. :)
Monday, November 2, 2009
The Pink/Brown Quilt Top
Friday, October 23, 2009
My new best friend
Monday, October 19, 2009
Tuesday, October 6, 2009
My Happy Birthday gone
Anyway, before the birthday presents, we spent the weekend at Lake Mead. We met Bob & Pam and fam down there Thursday night/Friday morning. We didn't get in until after 2am, and even though the hotel was less than desirable ($25 a night, what did I expect) we didn't care.
The weather couldn't have been more perfect Friday. High 80's, not a breath of wind (unusual for Lake Mead) water temperature about 74, and glass almost all day. We all skied our guts out! We also got some surfing in, and even got Pam (who's bday was Friday) up, after a few failed attempts. Don't worry though, once she got up, she was a pro!
Saturday was the exact opposite of Friday, we woke up to wind, ate breakfast in the wind, unloaded the boat in the wind, surfed in the wind, got yelled at by a wake boarder for tubing in the CRAPPIEST water possible. WTH? Got to witness SpeedoFest 2009, pictures coming, and lots of other mayhem in the wind. However, the best part of the day was not only was it my bday, but I loaded the boat, in the wind, PERFECTLY. Yes, my friends, Perfect. It was a little bday luck I am sure. :)
After we had enough wind we headed to the Johnson's, and I was greeted by lots of hugs and Gracie saying. "Mimi, panties", pulling up her shirt to show me her new panties. I love this little girl!!
Josh and Dave headed to the Priesthood Session, I got showered, played with kids, and then it was off to Cheesecake Factory with my two dates, and in Jill's "bling-bling" ride. Thanks to the Nav, we found Summerlin just fine. Thanks, Jill.
After dinner, we stayed up talking almost all night. In fact, the boys couldn't take it, so they were asleep long before our conversation ended. I love those good, long talks with Jill and Aaron. They always make things seem so much easier.
We arrived home Sunday, and were sad to find the weather here much colder than when we left. This is always such a hard time of year.....only a few more boating trips left.
Thanks again to all those who wished me Birthday wishes. I had a wonderful PROLONGED bday, and it was fantastic! I have a few pictures coming that will show the fruits of my labor and my bday present.... Stay tuned.
Wednesday, September 30, 2009
Take a Moment
Please help any of those 8,120 people know that there are at least 8,120 of us supporting them.
http://www.knowitfightitendit.org/
Thank you so much!
Monday, September 28, 2009
Our Special Employee
Wednesday, September 16, 2009
My Bravest Moment, but not Cameron's
So here is the ONE video I got with both Josh and I in it.
Josh had to man the boat (good excuse) so he didn't jump. I'll tell you what, this may not seem very high on film, but it scared the pee right out of me!
Monday, September 14, 2009
Lake Powell
We got the opportunity to go with some friends and family on a brand new houseboat. It was fantastic! Lake Powell will never be the same. :) We had air conditioning, an ice maker (that was found on the last day of the trip, after Bob & Pam's two trips to the marina) showers, hot tub, wave runners, and bedrooms to go around.
We also had some of the best company. Not only did Josh's uncle Bob and family go, but we also got to spend time with the Behuinin's, and also some of the Devey's! It is crazy how Josh and my family are all connected somehow, and we aren't even from the South! :)
We had great weather, other than a little wind on Saturday, and some short lived sprinkles Saturday night. It was just enough to calm the lake down for one last short blast. Blake and Sherry and Josh all tore it up!
We also got to try the Air Chair. Dang, that is hard! Both Josh and I weren't totally uncoordinated, but we both need a little more practice. Guess we will have to go with Blake and Sherry again!
Of course I only took a few pictures, and will post them and some videos of some serious surfing, and my bravest moment, so stay tuned!
This was one vacation I was not ready to come home from. We had such a great time, and it was so nice waking up on the water and with the sun every morning. Hopefully this will not be our last real skiing trip of the year. Lake Mead in October? Maybe?
Monday, August 31, 2009
This is the reason he married me, though
Josh: (While watching the above video) Man, I look terrible! (About a 30 second pause) Oh, that's because it's you!
I know he loves me, even though I am a terrible water skier. :)
Below is the real video of Josh, and he ISN'T terrible.
Wednesday, August 19, 2009
Bullets!
- Have had a crappy rental car for two weeks. I have never appreciated my car more
- Lost a very good friend to a layoff. Dang economy
- Took the Young Women water skiing. Had a BLAST!
- Mistook the rental car for a rally car, and tried to take a corner too fast, with the YW in the backseat! Don't worry, I told them to never do anything like that! :)
- Spend a glorious Sunday at the Quincy's cabin and rode the Honda Passport. I want a scooter
- Took the dirt rode home from the cabin. I was having flashbacks of the Ibapah Pony Express Route trip, but this dirt road only lasted about 10 miles.
- Found out some disheartening news about a friend who has Cancer. I HATE cancer!
- Spent a lot of time with Family the last couple weeks. It was heaven. I miss you all already
- Spent a lot of time at The Gathering Place for two weddings in two weeks
- Got the privilege to attend a sealing in the Mt. Timpanogos Temple
It has been a busy last couple weeks. A girl I work with said today, "I wish I was on an extended vacation." Amen. I wish I was too!
Thursday, August 6, 2009
Happy Birthday, Sister!
I miss you so much already!
I love my sister Keli because:
- she always has a way to make me laugh, even during the roughest and toughest of times
- she is a fabulous shopping partner
- she drives a minivan, and totally owns up to it
- she isn't afraid of what other people think of her
- she is always up for an adventure with me
- she is a GREAT mom, and wonderful wife
- she makes killer chocolate chip cookies
- plus many many other reasons
I don't love that my sister Keli:
- Lives so damn far away
I am so lucky to have such a wonderful sister and friend. She has always been one of the biggest influences in my life. She has taught me a lot, doesn't judge me, always has a good explanation, and always sticks up for me. Thanks for being such a great big sis! Love you tons!
Monday, August 3, 2009
It's been a while....
We hit the big year mark, July 26. I can't believe it has been a whole year. I know I have said this before, but it seems like just yesterday, and a lifetime all at the same time. I sure do miss her a lot, though. We spent the day mostly with the Quincy's, but we did also go over to the cemetery. The flowers we planted on Mother's Day are flourishing, and I am so glad! They look so great! We also stopped by my Dad's to say hi. All in all, it was a nice day. I think I made it harder on myself than I should have, but I guess I am entitled to one of those, aren't I? :)
We have been water skiing A LOT, and we have been having a great time. Josh had some family in town a couple weekends ago, so we loaded the boat up with about 13 of us, and had a blast!! Everyone got to do something, either, surf, tube, ski or just swim. It was so fun being able to have so many loved ones on our boat. We love our new boat for that very reason!
Thursday was my work Lagoon party. It as a great time. Keli and Sean and the girls, plus a few extra came along. Mckinley is by far the bravest! She went on almost every ride! It was her first time on the Rocket, and she had to hold my hand. I hated every minute of it! :) I sure love spending time with my family!!
Saturday, we got the boat out again, and got loads of people again! This time Keli and Sean and their family and some friends joined us. Again, it is so fun to be able to spend time with our families on the boat. We met up with Josh's uncle, so Keli, Maggie, Emma and I swam over so we could do some tubing, and the cousins could do some surfing with Josh. Maggie was so brave, and wanted to go on the tube, but ONLY with her Aunt Mimi!! Again, I hated every minute of it!
Today is a big day for my dad and Noma. They are exchanging their vows tonight, and come 7pm they will officially be married. Again, it is amazing how much has changed in such a short time. I am glad they are happy, and I wish them the best!
Friday, July 17, 2009
Here she is!
Adam, Summer and Noah came over to check it out. Ok, they came Outside to check it out..... Noah found his spot right away. Madison had to help each time though, just he just isn't big enough yet to take the cushions off.
Here is Josh. In the "New Boat Daze"
Josh bought a life jacket that fit Eli perfect. So, he told us all that this was his life jacket, but that he had to keep it in the boat. Don't worry, he took that tag/booklet off and told his mom to keep it safe for him. That had all he needed to know to go in the boat. It was darling.
We are so excited for our new toy, but I have come to find out that with a new toy such as this, comes more and more new toys.....surfboards, life jackets, ski boots, travel cover, etc...and with all these comes more spending $$$$! :)
Monday, July 13, 2009
Burley, Idaho and a lot of miscommunication
We got to spend some time with Ang and her wonderful family, in their beautiful home. It is so fun to spend time with good old friends, and be able to catch up. I love that she has horses, and LAND, and even a half a cow. Here is a conversation we had. Proves things are a little different in Burley/Declo/Sprinville, or where ever it is you live. :)
Meg: Where's Nate?
Ang: Out moving the Handlines
Meg: Oh, where are THEY moving to?
Ang: You don't know what those are, do you?
Meg: Oh, guess not. I thought they were your neighbors.
Ang: No Meg, they are sprinklers.
Nate was out rocking the rubber boots and moving the sprinklers in their "pasture", and loving every minute of it. I am so glad Ang and Nate are so happy. They are such wonderful people. Thanks again for letting us crash on your air mattress for the night. :)
We did finally get to drive the boat, and we loved every single thing about it. Hopefully sometime this week we will have a new addition.
Tuesday, June 30, 2009
6 WHOLE months
- Laundry, laundry and MORE laundry
- Cooking. I didn't know I had so much culinary talent....neither did Josh, and if he did, he probably wouldn't have married me!
- Sleeping with someone in your bed, and someone who you can kick in the middle of the night
- Always having someone to come home to, or being someones someone to come home to ( I like this one)
- Ice Cream before bed, but not alone
- Shopping at Home Depot, Bed Bath & Beyond, and Target, all with gift cards - in fact, I think we STILL have some
- Grocery shopping....ick!
- Having someones shoulder to cry on. Even if he doesn't know why
- AWESOME in-laws!
Tuesday, June 23, 2009
Roughin' It
I am actually really excited! We have great girls, and they are all a lot of fun!
I am sure I will return with a few mosquito bites, and lots of fun stories and pictures.
In fact, getting ready to go has made me think of my years at Girls Camp. I don't think there is one bad memory from camp. We always had SO much fun.
My favorite story though, has to do with my mom. She was in the Stake YW when I was about 16. She was going around visiting each wards Testimony meeting, so she came to ours last. She came and sat down in a lawn chair while the spirit was so strong. Just as she sat down, her chair folded up, with her in it, and boy did she scream!
At that moment, I was so happy that she was my mom. She always had such a great spirit with her, regardless if she was listening to our testimonies, or rolling down the hill in a lawn chair.
I hope that this year at Girls Camp I can be as good of leader, as my mom was. Wish me luck!
Wednesday, June 17, 2009
My head hurts
Maybe it is swine flu, or maybe it's just because I am Vitamin D deficient because all this blasted rain.
Either way, I am heading home to load up on the Advil, and try to talk my husband out of buying a new boat.
I guess if it keeps raining, an extra boat laying around won't be such a bad idea....
Tuesday, June 16, 2009
Another milestone down
Thursday, June 11, 2009
EscarGO!
I HATE snails. I would like to know a snails purpose in life, beside making mine a living Hell.
They are slimy, basically homeless, leave a trail where ever they go, and not the good kind like Hansel and Gretel, and they eat my plants. My peas are destroyed, and my Dahlia's are next on their list.
A few have taken flight over the fence into the College boy's yard, one went for a ride on Carl's windshield, three have found their untimely deaths by table salt, and a couple have had the pleasure of seeing the bottom of my shoe.
I can't believe people actually eat these things. I want to eat one, just to feel it's bones crush through my teeth.
*ok, really I am lying, I don't want to eat one, and do nails actually have bones???
Thursday, June 4, 2009
Thank goodness my husband can fix things
Monday, June 1, 2009
Estes Park, CO
Tuesday, May 26, 2009
The new Do' and "Memories Flooding Remembering"
Since I LOVE LOVE LOVE bullets, so here goes nothing:
- Got to spend most of the day Saturday with my sister Jill and the kids. This always makes for a great day!
- Kelli's yummy Homemade pizza Saturday night. Mmmmm....Feta and Artichokes
- Terminator! Friday night. Josh owes me for that one. One chick flick please.
- Bday party for Olivia, Carter, Jill, Noma and some leftovers for Gabe and Eli. LOTS of FOOD and cake-including Kelli's salad I so love!
- Lasagna at the Quincy's, Josh's fav
- Bike ride Monday morning, after some coaxing, and got my butt handed to me....man, I am out of shape!
- Jello, of course! Would a weekend be complete without my Pretzel Jello Salad? I don't think so.... It was a hit, by the way.
- Got a haircut. 5 inches long gone, but I Love it!
- Some chilly waterskiing and BIG waves Monday afternoon
- A GREAT Memorial day with lots of family and friends. I love this day. I love that the kick off to summer is spent remembering those who have passed on, and spending time with those you love. I missed my mom so much yesterday, but it was ok. I knew she was with us, and I knew she was proud of us all, with the exception of the Chicagohans, making to the cemetery, almost on time.
- Late to cemetery because of slight clothing mishap. I forgot my bra. I know, I know, for us small chested gals it ain't so bad. Good thing my shirt was baggy.
Here is a photo of the new do'
One Memorial Day behind us. That was another one of those "firsts" I was really worried about. It was nice to know that I have the support of so many loved ones. I have always taken my extended family for granted, until now. I appreciate them all so much!
Now, it is time for Josh and me to pack our bags for some more family togetherness, this time, we get to spend the next 5 days in Estes Park, CO with the Quincy family! I am so excited!
Sunday, May 17, 2009
Mother's Day
It was a hard day, but it was a good day.
We went to the cemetary and planted some of her favorite flowers. She would always tell me not to plant flowers until after Mother's day, so, that is just what we did.
Wednesday, May 13, 2009
My Quote for Life
Friday, May 8, 2009
I would rather it be Valentines Day again...
I wish I could just embrace it, but I can't.
I miss her so much, that every time I even think about a Mother's Day without a mom, tears come to my eyes. I still can't believe last year at this time, we were all healthy and happy and not mom-less.
I know the rest of my siblings feel the same way. I miss you all, and wish more than anything I could give you lots of hugs and shed lots of tears together.
To make matters worse, I have to teach YW Sunday. I'm sure I will be a blubbering mess the whole time, but I know my wonderful girls will understand.
Friday, May 1, 2009
The Search is finally over
Josh is soon to be the proud new owner of a 2002 Ford F150, King Ranch Edition, equipped with cowhide leather seats, and bullet holes.
Yes, I said cowhide leather seats.
Friday, April 24, 2009
I totally married up
Can I just brag for a moment?
Josh is the most educated person I know. Not only does he have a Bachelors Degree in Bio-Medical Engineering, but he is ALMOST finished with his Masters Degree in Mechanical Engineering. Funny that he married a girl with no more than a high school diploma, and a couple years of "college" at Dixie State. He is so helping our kids with their homework.
So, after all this schooling, it has finally paid off. Josh was offered a position at Hill Air Force Base, and he has accepted it. He starts May 11, just in time to get done with finals. It is a part time position for now, until he graduates at the end of the year.
In the meantime, he will still be part time in the lab at the U, and writing a thesis, AND let's not forget, water skiing as much as humanly possible.
Monday, April 20, 2009
Fun Family Times
Tuesday, April 14, 2009
Old Faithful
As I was putting laundry in the washer, I realize we have stalactites hanging from the shelf in the closet, that have dripped forming stalactites on one of my dresses, and puddling on the floor. Awesome. Old Man Carl's Laundry Detergent is a little old, don't you think? The bottom had burst open and leaked everywhere!
So, I get to work, and have to basically hose down the place. Once everything is cleaned up, and if you have ever cleaned up a half a bottle of laundry detergent, you know it gets soapy, and very very very very bubbly. So, I throw the stuff covered in detergent in the laundry, and head to clean the bathroom. While scrubbing the sink, I can hear the washer draining, and some "glub glub glub" sounds. Uh Oh. Next thing I know, there is water shooting out of the toilet, and water bubbling (LOTS of bubbles, which I attribute to the soapiness of the laundry) up from the drain in the shower! AH! I have a geyser!
Turns out, we have a blockage. DUH. Great. So, Wednesday night at 9:30PM, the rooter man shows up with his snake thingy, and gets down and dirty. This made Old Man Carl's day, or night, whatever. He hasn't this much action in years. He even got the energy to make it down the stairs to check it out. Bless his heart. No, really.
Thursday, April 9, 2009
I may possibly be killed for posting this
This is Josh Hula Hooping on Wii Fit.
He is right, I can't do it to save my life.
Wednesday, April 8, 2009
DWTS
I love this show. So much. Why? I have no idea.
Thursday, April 2, 2009
Ok, Ok!
Things are going well for the Quinski's, except we haven't been doing nearly enough water skiing. In fact, Josh traded in the wetsuit for a snow suit and is out enjoying the fresh 100 inches of snow that have fallen in the last 4 days. I am actually not exaggerating this time. I heard it on the news....
I haven't been riding as much as I would like either (hence the weather, and an enormous amount of laziness) but I am trying to get motivated. Troy tried talking me into the 1000 Warriors, but that isn't motivation, for me, that is a death sentence!
Our little apartment is coming together. We are still constantly trying to get rid of the lingering smoke/old man/basement smell, and I have even come across a few spiders. Yep, still a chicken for our eight-legged friends. Thank goodness for a husband who thinks I am ridiculous. :)
These last couple days have been extremely trying for me. I found out some news Tuesday, and it affected me more than I thought it would. I thought I was prepared for this, but come to find out, I wasn't. I have been feeling especially lonely lately (no, this isn't a pity party for Meg) and it just seemed to all happen at once. I thought last night, as I was down in Riverton visiting my mom's new headstone, which is beautiful, that I know that I could stop in to numerous different neighbors and friends houses, and they would just let me cry. Thank you all for that. One of these days I may show up on your doorstep. Lucky you.
However, there is a light at the end of the tunnel. We are all meeting in Vegas in April for a very special cousins wedding, and I can't wait to be all together again. These are the moments that I cherish most.
Speaking of this very special cousin, I still haven't received a wedding invite, so maybe I will not be attending the wedding.... Guess we will see! :)
Monday, March 23, 2009
My new toy...
Monday, March 16, 2009
Waterskiing, in MARCH!
Josh, Dave and I celebrated the beginning of Spring Break by going down to St. George to get the boat out for the first ski of the season. Even with the water only being 50 degrees, and your feet going numb, the skiing was pretty great!
Friday, March 13, 2009
"A" for Effort
This was our conversation Wednesday night after Josh had changed the oil Friday before we drove the 800 miles to and from Las Vegas:
Meg: Hey, can you go check the car. It seems to be shifting funny.
Josh: Sure, I think I need to drain some oil, because I think there is too much in it.
Meg: (20 Minutes later) So, whats wrong with the car?
Josh: (While surfing the web, and biting his lip) Um, I think I might have drained the Transmission Fluid instead of the Oil....
Meg: YOU DID WHAT??? (I won't go into much detail here on what was said, mostly because my mother in law reads my blog :) )
No, to Josh's defense, they do look a lot alike. When I took it to the dealership (Dan) to fix it, he was gracious in letting me know that Jiffy Lube does it all the time. Thankfully, the car didn't sustain any damage, and was just a few $$$ short of Transmission fluid and a few $$$ full of Oil. So, this is one of those "I told you so" moments, but of course, being the wonderful supportive wife I am, I let this one slide.
(Don't read if you gag easily)
I do have to take a moment though to defend my darling husband. I am so thankful to have a husband who is such a handy man. Whenever something breaks, or the fluorescent lights in the bedroom go out, or when the door jamb gets stuck, or the moulding is missing and letting Old Man Carl's cigarette smoke leak in, or hang our new TV, and MANY MANY picture frames, and even change the oil in the car, he is ever so willing to help me. I couldn't ask for anyone better! I love him so much, and being married to him has made my life in balance again. I couldn't make it through a day without him. He listens to me complain (A LOT) and listens to me cry, and vent, and makes me laugh (A LOT) and always makes me feel like the most beautiful woman in the world. I hope that I can do for him what he does for me. Except the beautiful woman part, that would just be weird.
Monday, March 9, 2009
Whew!
Thursday, February 26, 2009
Lesson #9
The young mother set her foot on the path of life. "Is this the long way?" she asked.
God answered her "Yes, this way is hard, and you will be old before you reach the end of it, but the end will be better than the beginning.
The young mother was happy, and she would not believe that anything could be better than these years. So she played with her children, she fed them and bathed them, taught them how to tie their shoes and ride a bike, and reminded them to feed the dog and do their homework and brush their teeth. The sun shone on them and the young Mother cried, "Nothing will ever be lovelier than this."
Then the nights came, and the storms and the path was sometimes dark, and the children shook with fear and cold, and the mother drew them close and covered them with her arms and the children said, "Mother, we are not afraid, for you are near, and no harm can come."
And the morning came, and there was a hill ahead, and the children climbed and grew weary, and the mother was weary. But at all times she said to the children, "a little patience and we are there."
So the children climbed and as they climbed they learned to weather the storms. And with this, she gave them strength to face the world.
Year after year she showed them compassion, understanding, and hopes, but most of all...unconditional love.
And when they reached the top they said, "Mother, we would not have done it without you."
The days went on, and the weeks and the months and the years, and the mother grew old and she became little and bent. But her children were tall and strong, and walked with courage. And the mother, when she lay down at night, looked up at the stars and said, "This is a better day than the last, for my children have learned so much and are now passing these traits on to their children."
And when the way became rough for her, they lifted her, and gave her their strength, just as she had given them hers. One day they came to a hill, and beyond the hill they could see a shining road and golden gates flung wide.
And Mother said: "I have reached the end of my journey. And now I know the end is better than the beginning, for my children can walk with dignity and pride, with their heads held high, and so can their children after them."
And the children said, "You will always walk with us, Mother, even when you have gone through the gates."
And they stood and watched her as she went on alone, and the gates closed after her.
And they said: "We cannot see her, but she is with us still. A Mother is more than a memory. She is a living presence. Your Mother is always with you. She's the whisper of the leaves as you walk down the street, she's the smell of certain foods you remember, flowers you pick and perfume that she wore, she's the cool hand on your brow when you're not feeling well, she's your breath in the air on a cold winters day. She is the sound of the rain that lulls you to sleep, the colors of a rainbow, she is your birthday morning. Your Mother lives inside your laughter and she's crystallized in every tear drop.
A mother shows every emotion...happiness, sadness, fear, jealousy, love, hate, anger, helplessness, excitement, joy, sorrows - all the while hoping and praying you will only know the good feelings in life.
She's the place you came from, your first home, and she's the map you follow with every step you take. She's your first love, your first friend, even your first enemy, but nothing on earth can separate you.
Not time, not space, not even death!
Monday, February 23, 2009
I am one tired Wife!
This is fine, except I HATE to wake up. I hate to have to wake up for almost anything, even my husband apparently, because this is the text message I received last night while Josh was tucked away in bed reading his book:
"Come to bed please, I love you"
He thought this would wake me up. It didn't.
Friday, February 13, 2009
It's got to be Mom...
So, when I had my little breakdown, I went up to her room and just cried. "I need something that is hers, just to have it, to feel what is left of her on it". So, what did mom have more than anything else??? LOTION!
I grab a HUGE bottle of Avon pink lotion, which she put on her feet every night before she went to bed. I love that smell.
Sunday night, as Josh and I were getting ready for bed, the lotion sat closed (with a push and turn lid, I might add) on my nightstand. We laughed and laughed about a friend who's husband accidental wet the bed right after they got married and peed all over her. I was laughing so hard, I almost peed the bed right then.
5:30am rolls around, and I feel something cold on my back. I roll over to feel something wet on the sheets. So, what is my first thought? "Josh or I have wet the bed!" To my surprise it is a little sticky, and smells quite nice... At that moment I feel the half empty bottle...
Somehow, I had opened that HUGE bottle of Mom lotion in the middle of the night, and slept with it open. The sheets were so saturated with lotion, that there was a 6 inch puddle.
When I told Keli what had happened, her answer was "It's got to be Mom, you lucky". I'm going with that. She visited me, and left a little something behind for me to remember. I love you mom, come visit me anytime, I miss you so much!
Tuesday, February 10, 2009
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